October 2005

I have quoted directly from the book to give you a flavor of Lynn’s work. Enjoy!

Excuse Me, Your Life is Waiting:
the astonishing power of feelings
by Lynn Grabhorn

Lynn Grabhorn reveals how our feelings make our lives what they are – not positive thinking, or sweat and strain, or good or bad luck, or even smarts, but feelings: good ones, bad ones, up ones, down ones, and all the ones in between.

We create by feeling, not by thought! That’s right; we get what we get by the way we feel, not by trying to slug things into place or control our minds.

The Law of Attraction – like attracts like – is absolute (and has nothing to do with personalities). No one lives beyond this law, for it is the law of the universe. It’s just that we never realized until recently that the law applies to us too. This is the law behind success or failure.

Modern-day physicists have finally come to agree that energy and matter are one and the same, which brings us back to where we started: that everything vibrates, because everything – whether you can see it or not – is energy. Pure, pulsing, ever-flowing energy….the electronic vibrations you send out every split second of everyday are what have brought – and are continuing to bring – everything into your life, big or small, good or bad. Everything! No exceptions!

The more emotion the thinker/sender charged his thoughts with, the clearer the picture turned out to be….there is magnetic energy attracted to our thoughts, and that thought is propelled by our emotions…. because the vibrational waves (emotions) we send out are magnetically charged, we are literally walking magnets, constantly pulling back into our world anything that just happens to be playing on the same frequency or wavelength.

So whether it’s high vibrational joy, or low vibrational worry, what we’re vibrationally offering in any moment is what we’re attracting back. We are the initiators of the vibrations, therefore the magnets, the cause. Like it or not, we have created – and are creating – it all. We may be flesh and blood, but first and foremost we are energy…we can magnetize into our lives whatever in the world we desire by controlling the feelings that come from our thoughts.

We get what we emotionally focus on! Focus on what we want with passion and excitement, and presto! It’s on its way. Focus on what we don’t want with the same passion (such as worry, concern, etc.) and presto! It too will be on its way.

What comes to us has nothing to do with what we’re doing physically, or how worthy we are, or how good we are, or what our nonexistent destiny may be. It has only to do with how we are vibrating! Which means feeling. Which means attracting. Period!

Four Steps to Break Out:

Step One: Identify what you DON’T want.
Step Two: From that, identify what you DO want.
Step Three: Get into the feeling place of what you want.
Step Four: Expect, listen, and allow it to happen.

Learn to identify a good feeling from a bad feeling. This is the secret that transforms us into deliberate creators instead of creators by accident. This is the power that changes wishful thinking into actuality, the simple art of being able to identify a good feeling from a bad one….This is what “good luck” is all about…. Just learn to tell a wonderful feeling from an everyday downer one, and watch the magic happen.

So here’s the key: Original Intent always manifests as desire…desire for anything that will get our passion going….Once you know what you want, you must find the feeling place of having that want, while at the same time staying out of the feeling place of not having it.

Lynn Grabhorn’s book contains many entertaining stories and she ends her book describing her “Thirty Days to Breakthrough”, listing Major Do’s and Major Don’ts.